We think that in order to set out any kind of rules, one has to question their need.
As stated above, the expectation to be fully naked in the pool is something we think all clubs adhere to, and is the expected norm throughout all naturism.
Eye contact, no staring. Using a towel to sit on for hygiene purposes, no sexual behaviour, and being respectful and polite. These are not impossible asks, and we would imagine most naturists would be happy with these.
We have never visited or been a part of a club, we can only base our comments on what we have seen or what we have been told, and we cannot deny, we have encountered some eyebrow raising things.
We once looked into a club that demanded all members were shaved or waxed downstairs, and yes, we found that unacceptable, as it clashed with personal choice.
We have been told of clubs that demand nudity at all times everywhere, which to a degree we can understand, but when that includes visitors or people new to naturism, we cannot agree, why is so hard to tolerate someone in a bathing suit who is a little apprehensive and nervous? They will get there, it takes time for some people, surly other naturists are aware of this and would not wish to put people so blatantly on the spot? We do not agree with this policy, as it will put off new people, and feel small changes should be made.
We completely understand the rule for no men allowed in a women’s only area as Bare Oaks in Canada has in place, which allows some women, especially new to naturism women to have somewhere to acclimatize before entering the main areas, that to use make good sense, although we would argue that a similar no women rule, be applied to another area where men could be a little more boisterous without offending those of delicate sensibilities.
We can even handle a quiet only rule for another part of a camp, where things are more relaxed, we too have our quiet moments and would enjoy being there, knowing our quiet sides are not stopping those who wish to have a loud good fun.
The rule of no sexual behaviour has to be possibly the most important which is enforced with vigour, we can see any naturist disagreeing with that.
All clubs have some rules, such as respect, being tidy and be clean to the premises, and take good care of them, we would say these are universal rules that apply to everything be it naturist or not, they are as we see it sensible.
If the rules create division or distress, there has to be a rethink, and if there are more than ten times the membership, you would have to question why, and ask was this clique building, as only a certain kind of member will be allowed in?
Rule have to be sensible, easy to remember and not handed out like confetti, we feel plain and simple and not in abundance will provide the right sort of atmosphere for all to enjoy a club, however, we have not been in one, never ran one, or have one near enough we can attend, so really we are not that qualified to comment on them, but we gave it a go to see.