Definitely we hopefully all want our national bodies to grow and prosper because in doing so they represent naturism growing and prospering. Maybe some thoughts in this forum will show how they can grow and prosper and not fade away.
There has been an increasing trend to imagine that national bodies and clubs have seen their day and the future relies on independent travelling/globetrotting as encouraged ironically by most blogs and websites not linked to the club network. Steve and I see the importance of travel in naturist terms and the importance of independent holiday venues/villas etc offering non-club linked holidays but we believe that the spirit of naturism as a social lifestyle needs the local and national membership. After all could it not be argued that in their hey day they allowed the world to trust and accept naturism and in return saw larger membership. The naturist families that filled clubs around the world with activity showed that naturism was a universal life style for all. Today with numbers decreasing and the average age increasing the acceptability of naturism in people's eyes is changing. The rules of the clubs and national bodies may have appeared "controlling" to some but the no rules, lets get naked and do it our way attitude that started to replace the clubs also saw the lack of trust growing. Naturists going on holiday without children - raises doubts - why aren't children there? Before long we have the down fall of Cap D'agde and clubs choosing the Libertine path. As boring as it may seem we need rules.
The trick is to have the rules make sense and to not appear to be rules for rules sake. Look at Twitter, ANW and Facebook. Twitter has no rules and nudity 99% of the time is sex, ANW has (we hope) a few rules to ensure we stay naturist appropriate, that make sense and also encourage a respectful community, Facebook has rules that don't make sense, are illogical, and leave the user feeling controlled (so many of my posts get removed yet I try to follow the rules of suitability - but there is no logic and worse still no system to communicate and fine out why) - yet Facebook despite the control is still a place a sexualised behaviour, hate, violence and dishonour.
This is what clubs and national bodies need to consider - rules that make sense, ideas that fit today and above all else changing the gene pool but in the right direction.
Understanding the difference between false positives and real positives. The trendy blogs may encourage readers and so seemingly encouraging naturism but many simply only encourage an interest in the blogger and not the lifestyle. You can watch James Bond but you won't become a spy no matter how entertaining. You can read about someone naked on a beach half way across the world but that does no more to sell naturism or even trust in naturism than knowing film stars go naked on beaches - it it a different world that the average person doesn't believe they can take part in. We all know that those with fame play with different rules - and most bloggers/you-tubers/tic-tockers etc are looking for a short cut to fame - like Big Brother or X-Factor.
The same is true of trendy Hashtags like I am the Face of Naturism or Normalise Nudity or independent naturist "symbols". They are moving us around in circles. Naturists applaud them like the Blogs imagining that because we "get it" that it is doing some good. It simply isn't. What non-naturist understands or cares about any of this? It is all about selling ideas (and merchandise) to existing naturists. It doesn't take us beyond ourselves and pull in new blood. What in the world does I am the Face of Naturism mean? The single part of the body that is seen when we wear clothes - and we shouldn't be individuals saying look at me - we should be groups saying look at us. As I wrote in H&E a few months back we should say "We are the Body of Naturism." As it is our whole bodies that join naturism and we are social so we should promote as groups/organisations/bodies. Normalise Nudity - as I have said before for something to need normalising suggests in the mind that it is currently abnormal. What are you buying into when you buy a naturist symbol product? It is a product selling a symbol that sells more products. It is commercialism for commercialism sake we advertise it on their behalf just like wearing a jumper with GAP written across it. These are all examples of false positives. At least by buying into your national body you are supporting growth, clubs, laws, beaches, events...
So where are the true positives. Well I think ANW is a true positive (though am I not bound to think that?) but others exists. But why - well because we offer a club feel across national borders but with the same level of friendship and respect. We as mentioned above have rules but hopefully they make sense and ANW isn't just about me and Steve but about us all. The lifestyle. As a unit members write not for fame but for sharing in the community, we post images not for attention but to share the joy, ANW like any club needs funding - but that funding covers costs and allows (or at least partly helps) Steve and I to devote silly hours to ANW and hence naturism - we have no want to sell ourselves (in fact we are hugely shy and it is our love of naturism that drives us) but sometimes when you care you have to step out of your comfort zone. ANW is we believe an example of how naturism could be run on a small local scale and also how a "social media" site of any type could be run. In fact the internet itself. Being upfront and honest about rules, funding, membership and in return expecting and seeing the community doing the same. We can guarantee everyone but the overwhelming feeling is good natured - serious and fun. Something else we do is turn away promoters/advertisers that we don't feel represent naturism (sadly we have had many seedier websites/venues enquire) we have seen websites,
blogs and even national bodies advertise opportunities that they should not wish to be connected with - you have to be true to the nature of naturism - otherwise what are you telling your followers/members...ANW is not alone there are other sites devoted to sensible promoting, information sharing and learning of the lifestyle. Run by people who love the lifestyle more than they love themselves.
And isn't that the biggie. One of the things that came across in our December Survey was that people joined their National bodies (for the same reason they joined ANW) to support the promotion of naturism and to be part of a community. The boards of the national bodies need to recognise that they are not self serving politicians or directors of large faceless companies they are dealing with a human commodity. Naturists who love naturism and don't join for what they can get but join to be part of something - to feel connected. National Bodies need to put members first - make them feel special and nurtured. The members are the product - and the products success relies on the members being happy and respected. Not just a few, not just those in the know, but the majority. You cannot please all the people all the time but you can give it a good try. Most people in the survey who declared not being in their national body said it was because they felt disconnected, not served and that the body existed for an elite few making decisions. We have heard these same complaints from local clubs too. If naturism is about equality then we simply don't want dictators.
This is another big True Positive - the biggest. Naturist bodies have naturists to sell the lifestyle and their organisation. If everyone who like ANW tells as many people as possible then are membership and in return the community will grow and get more exciting and then more people will be told and so on. National bodies should be doing and encouraging the same. People on social media shouldn't be brandishing symbols that sells symbols that should use a ANW logo (we should have a transparent one available for download) and /or their national body logo - display pride in a community connection and promote community spirit not just a symbol with no body of people behind it. Be a community- remind people that naturists are not just individual oddballs but groups of organised. respectful, bodies who actually connect more positively than most groups. If we want naturism to grow we have to show that it already has a considerable following - not just random globetrotters or extremist rebels but for generations we have been large groups of cross sections of people. If national bodies don't want their numbers to decline they should make sure that they respect their existing numbers and get them working to help grow their membership.
It isn't easy in some ways - the years that this has not been happening has left a generation gap. On top of this many of those natural seeking naturism have instead found nudity on the internet which has lead to them opting for the sexualised nudity or rejecting the idea. We need to find a way now of bridging that gap, healing the harm that 40 plus years of naturism slowly losing its way and then being pummelled by the internet has done. We need people like RnR and their eager daughter. Naturism grew originally as a cheap, healthy escape from reality. Don't we need that more than ever? The world is tough, harsh, expensive, cold - how many youngsters, families, couples are there out there that would relish reconnecting to nature and the "wellness" that brings? Instead we have representatives of naturist bodies who say - I go on holiday to adult only venues because I don't like the way young people behave. Seriously I have had this sort of attitude expressed to me. Just as I have had bloggers say things like - we don't approve of what you are doing because it involves joining and the club side of naturism is damaging to the future of naturism which should just be individuals doing things the way they like. Can body spokespeople not see that families and children are the future of our lifestyle and if children don't know how to behave they will only learn by example, by being in social settings. Otherwise these children will become the adults and where does that leave us? Can the bloggers not see that naturism only exists because of the social aspects - if people hadn't connected as clubs to fight for naturism we wouldn't have the ability to go off and do it our way. Are bloggers "followers" just like a "fan club" are not bloggers requests for donations or patreon support not just the same as "club fees"? but at least by joining a club the members can take part themselves.
As RnR write in their blog there are foolish rules - single men, age limits - cost are often too high, families and family events few and far between. National bodies fear promoting families, they are too eager to encourage women (which just feels creepy) and have a tendency to concentrate on women who are looking for confidence which suggests that happy balanced women will find no need to be part of it. Naturism appears to the outsider to be populated by retirees and the slightly younger rebel with an axe to grind. We have to break that mould, we have destroy the idea that boards are remote and wrapped up in themselves, sitting passing judgement on those below them who will never really appreciate naturism the same way they do. Surely the truth of the matter is that they love naturism. They should be naked and social. They should be on places like ANW talking about how much they love naturism, why they do it and making friends and connections. Allow people to see that they one of them and even better realise that they are just like all the other naturists out there. Steve and I when we created ANW wanted to be part of a a community - even in our blog A Naturist Family we wanted to sell naturism and not ourselves. That is what the boards should be doing - getting to know naturists and finding out how we tick, looking at how we connect and figuring out what we do to move forward.
How we all move forward working together and united with the common goal supporting each other in our attempt to support naturism. Working together we are more than capable of changing the way naturism is perceived, working together to change the notion of joining groups in people's minds and working together to show that naturism and families is fine, naturism can be fun for the young adult and that in the spirit of equality anyone (man or woman) is welcome and equally will be ejected when not behaving. We must not deny people simply because of a quota but because of behaviour - and we should like wise not show positive discrimination. Let naturism show what really modern equality means and not some forced PC fakery. We have more chance of encouraging the young and women if we encourage everyone - after all I was introduced to naturism by a single man.
What do you think?
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