Good morning.
I never grew up fearing naturism or concerned about it. As mentioned previously there was a old man who used to cycle around my village naked and no one cared.
Although it seemed harmless enough I never considered it for myself. When I went abroad I never considered being topless. I never felt comfortable about being naked around others and so never was. I didn't think it was wrong for others to but just not right for me. I went to a few festivals and would see some naked and topless but once again had no want to join them. I think a lot of it was to do with my place in the world and with the people I knew. Childhood abuse and awkward relationships with family and boyfriends was not going to encourage me to want to be naked in a social, intimate and friendly setting. I cannot remember a time when I was naked in front of anyone in my adult life - there was always physical barriers of one form or another. Locked doors, towels, bedding, clothing, underwear, sleepwear.
So for me the main inspiration was Steve. As soon as I met him I felt comfortable within myself and for the first time felt comfortable being naked in front of another human being and allowed nudity to be part of our life together, around the home and garden. When he suggested we tried naturism in a public setting. That was my inspiration. Simple as that.
I guess - for me at least - I had to find a comfort within before I could find a comfort without. Naturism is often considered great for confidence - but you still have to find a level of confidence before you can try it. Trust, Faith and Belief: In yourself, those around you and the circumstances you are in.
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Anna ANW
at September 15, 2023 5:23 PM BST