Allen - I see where you are coming from but I cannot agree.
I think placing adults booking a Friday over a Wednesday off work is much easier than asking parents to lie to schools (and encourage their children to lie) for a day away from school - particularly as this is supposed to be a family event. Morally I just cannot do that - naturism is about being open and honest and there is no way that I am going to lie in support of it. If I did how could anyone trust anything I ever wrote on behalf of naturism again? Our boys were so looking forward to NKD again this year and we have had to explain to them that we will noy be going again. It is ironic as we wrote article for the BN magazine, for H&E and for ANW all encouraging people (especially families) to go to this most important of family opportunities in the naturist calendar in the UK. Absences from school today are very much logged and go on permanent records -is it very likely that both my sons would be ill on the same day - and possibly again next year? Adults have a right to book holidays in advance with work and no employers/employees are going to be comfortable suggesting Friday's are better to have off because no work gets done anyway. That would be a dangerous attitude to strike as it suggests that both are comfortable with a lazy and non-committed attitude towards the fifth day of the working week.
The argument that it is hard to book places with non-naturist locations at peak times would make sense if the BN still wasn't booking that August slot for a naturist event. Just one where children are not invited during the school summer holidays! So the BN are having no problem holding onto this time slot - just choosing to not have families and children - why not do the adult weekend out of season instead?
The BN does do a great job in many ways but on this occasion they have sadly let families down. Replacing a great weekend in August with an adult only event and then moving the children friendly event to over lap with school terms. Yes - school holidays do vary across the country - which is all the more reason for them to place a family friendly event in the middle of the summer holidays so all families stand a chance of going. The lack of thought in the NKD timing is staggeringly wrong and it has left me very saddened in deed.
On another note - why does any naturist federation wish to create adult only events anyway? Naturism should be for all - we are seeing too many naturist locations and too many naturist individuals on the internet treating naturism as a sexualised lifestyle -
ALL federations should be clarifying that this is not the case by ensuring families are always welcome and encouraged. Otherwise the attitudes slipping in to our lifestyle will be seen to be quietly endorsed by the federations. This is not an attack on the BN this is a plea for naturism all over the globe. We have to fight back against the misuse and misunderstanding of naturism that is growing around the globe and the best way to do that is through ensuring it is family friendly and not by promoting an adult only party atmosphere of alcohol and late night dancing. Sure that can be part of naturism but not the centre of it. We have to remember that those looking in do not understand and will jump to conclusion. Alcohol and discos are already well known for dating, one night stands and bad behaviour - the average person will not consider the idea of when you add nudity to the mix it will not be some sort of orgy. We as naturists get it - but non-naturists will simply not get it and will stay away in their thousands. To increase the number of naturists out there (and the number of people willing to join federations) we have to ensure that the average person feels comfortable with naturism - it is hard enough to get people to imagine taking their clothes off in public - without putting doubts in their head about what type of behaviour they may witness when doing so.
Ensuring a family friendly atmosphere in naturism (for everyone - old, young, childless, single etc) is the only way of promoting naturism as universally safe and suitable for all.
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at February 23, 2023 12:11 PM GMT